Do you feel tired running all the time into the same type of comments from the same type of people about the same topics? Well, me too…: BOTTOMS. PART I.

 

BOTTOMS. PART I.

Do you feel tired running all the time into the same type of comments from the same type of people about the same topics?  Well, me too…: BOTTOMS.

 

The importance of the bottom characters

 

If I were to write a screenplay for a movie or a series today,

I would pay attention especially to the bottom one actor and I would make sure that people love him. They need to root for him more than for him and love him even before he starts any series whatsoever, because of how fragile and vulnerable is the position of actors who portray bottoms as characters. You need to be mindful dead not only those people who are evidently loving boy love genre are watching this series or have seen something from it or have seen some of their performance is on stage and not all of them are going to be overly happy with their looks and with the meanings behind it, no matter if they know something about the culture or not. This is just the nature of people to ne

gatively take things they don't know. And even if they do knowand they are still not interested, we are going to have problems with those people. But the true answer to that stage is not being nasty, rude, forceful. Don't try to force your way or your ideas(/ideals?) on them, because they are never going to agree to that and listen to you. You need to apply less pressure in cases where you want to succeed. No one cares that you love these people. No one cares that you love what they do. No one cares that you love what they stand for and fight for. People just care what they care about and the way to get to them is not through violence, but through soft skills. And only through undirect approach.

 We don't know them; they don't know us. We don't

care about them; they don't care about us. Only in instances when they are so ready to make fun out of something they don't know, right?

And we despise and hate it and feel itchy about it and want to fight. We don't want to apply soft measures. We want to win. We want to win their hearts for them. We want to win their hearts for us because we feel that we belong there. There is no easy way out of it and no way I know of that wouldn't hurt us or both of our groups. Camps. Whatever you wish to call them. We don't have other tools but a
rguments, right? But arguments usually are not happy as experience for us and they are not the most sophisticated way to worm our way in. We are

dedicated, we are committed and yet it's not enough. I know it sucks, who told you that life doesn't suck? Because it does. But then again, if you insist on wanting something, and you are dedicated about the goal, not about the means to it, you always have tools and if you learn how to use them no matter how boring it is or how much painful it might be for you, then you can achieve something you wouldn't dare to think about before. You might achieve success through trying.

 

Here is the train of thought behind this whole rant. Too quickly and too easily bottom characters become targets of hatred and derision, ridicule (…of majority, of those who don’t care…). Especially if we are speaking about gay male characters. They are being made fun out of. The jokes are aimed at their looks, and because of their feminine behaviour.

That superficial stuff is being so many times a pain in the stomach in majority. It is visible, so it is easily targeted. They are perceived as being the fragile one that are good for nothing, and that they are ashamed of their families for who they are and how they look. They are perceived as the weak one. And the weak ones are of course good for nothings. There is this equation, right?

No one blames gay men for being masculine, strong and no one blames those who are top… because that is what men (a.k.a. “true man in civilised major society”) typically (a.k.a. “normally”) does. If you are gay like that, you are not going to have

big problems about that, because, for comfort’s sake, you are still going to be considered a “true man”, but you were weak man, who just couldn’t help yourself, and when there was no better opportunity, you just… took, what was at hand, I guess. Easily accessible. You are kind of “safe” then. You did nothing wrong – just a mistake. You can be treated, you can be cure from that condition. You can get

out of it yourself if a proper woman is offered to you. 

CONTINUE READING PART II.